The other owner really wants Tulo. What about this offer: I give Tulo $19, Gardner 11, and Fister 4 and get Andrus 16, Stanton 10, and Strasburg 10. Fair, or too lopsided in my favor?

Though you are giving up the best player in the deal, Stanton isn't that far off from being elite in my opinion. Who cares if its fair? If they want Tulo, I'd do that trade and I'm not even a huge Andrus fan. You're getting a potential first rounder of the future in Stanton, a decent high-end SS and a potential Ace. Doug Fister is going to struggle if the Miggy/Fielder at the corners thing happens and Gardner is SAGNOF.

Yeah, agreed. It's a good deal for you, but it's fair enough for the other guy if he really just wants Tulo.